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 Sympathy > Funeral Etiquette
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Within the Jewish faith, there exists 3 different sects, Conservative, Orthodox and Reform however all three share similar funeral rituals. According to Judaism, the deceased is usually buried the same day or within 24 hours because embalming is not permitted. The deceased's body is wrapped in a white burial shroud and is placed in a simple coffin made of wood. The Funeral Service takes place at the Synagogue where prayers, eulogies and sermons will be conducted. Depending on the religious sect, head coverings may be required. For Orthodox services both sexes are required to cover their heads, yarmulkes for men and scarves for women. For Conservative services, only men are required to wear yarmulkes. And for Reformed services, the choice is optional. Most Synagogues will provide the head coverings if required. Black and dark coloured conservative clothing is the most respectful attire. Once the funeral service has taken place only close friends and family members will proceed to the cemetery for burial. Once the coffin is lowered to the ground, close family members will place dirt on to the coffin. The focus, until the burial is on the deceased, after which, people may begin to approach the family and offer their condolences. Once the burial has taken place, Shiva (the mourning period) shall commence.
Shiva traditionally lasts for seven days and nights. The deceased's family is required to stay home for this time period, refraining from their day-to-day activities. Allowing mourners to focus on their grief and help prepare them to go back to their day-to-day duties. Shiva also allows friends, family and acquaintances to offer their condolences and offer help and support to the family. Friends and extended family usually prepare the first meal (Seudat Havrach) consisting of eggs, cookies, cake and fruit. Preparing food that is round in shape symbolizes the cycle of life. The Jewish tradition discourages people from cheering up the mourners, thus it is most appropriate to offer words that encourages family to come to terms with their mourning. It is not appropriate to send flowers. It is customary in the Jewish faith to plant trees to honor the memory of the deceased or to make a charitable donation in the deceased's name.
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