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 Sympathy > Funeral Etiquette
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Christianity
Within the Christian faith, there are numerous denominations including: Protestant, Roman Catholic, Christian Orthodox, Baptists, plus many others. In general, these religions share a commonality in how they practice the ritual of funerals. Although cultural distinctions may exist, it is important to be aware and knowledgeable of the proper rituals when attending a Christian funeral. Traditionally, the deceased is taken to a funeral home and is prepared for family viewing. The body will generally be presented in a casket then later buried at a cemetery. Depending on the final wishes of the deceased however, the remains may also be cremated. Generally, friends, family and acquaintances gather at the funeral home to offer their condolences to the family and pay their last respects to the deceased. Upon arrival at the funeral home, it is common to firstly approach the casket or urn and take a few moments to silently reflect or pray. When finished paying respect to the deceased, one is expected to approach the deceased's family and offer condolences. This is a very general and common procedure at most Christian Funerals. Today, many funerals may vary depending upon the final wishes of deceased or the deceased's family. Often times a funeral mass or service will take place in a Church or funeral home chapel. So, it is suggested that you find out specific funeral service details, which are generally posted in a local newspaper, or through word of mouth to be certain of times and dates.
Depending on the last wishes of the deceased, their family or cultural background, the body usually will be buried (Interned) in a final resting-place. Traditionally, the burial will take place at a cemetery or mausoleum. Close family and friends will gather around and a clergyman will recite ritualistic prayers. It was common for the casket to be lowered into the ground in the presence of those gathered. However, today the casket is usually lowered once everyone has left the cemetery. If the deceased has been cremated the remains will be placed in an urn and pending on the final arrangements the remains may either be scattered at a designated destination or kept by the family. A gathering or wake usually takes place immediately after the interment or is announced at a later date. This gathering is an opportunity for the family to offer thanks to those who have helped during their time of sadness and to also memorialize and celebrate the life of the deceased. Oftentimes food and beverages are serviced at these gatherings.
Traditionally, one was expected to wear black when visiting the funeral home or attending the funeral. Today, dark colours and conservative attire are also considered to be appropriate. To offer gestures of sympathy, quite often, it is proper to send the bereaved family a card or letter of condolence, flowers to the family's home or to the funeral home, or make a charitable donation on behalf of the deceased.
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